Quite a statement, what does it trigger in your mind when you read the phrase, "Wrecked for the Ordinary?" There is a online magazine, of the same name in which a recent article by Sara Shelton highlighted observations of her time in Africa where she realized that it doesn't take a lot of 'stuff' to be content. I want to expand on this topic by detailing my own experience of being 'wrecked' and the impact that it continues to have on me today.
Before reading further on my experience, I would recommend that you read Sara's experience of visiting the largest slum in Nairobi. Much of her experience in Kenya was similar to mine in Ethiopia. While only there a week, I am changed as a person - and to be honest, I continue to change even more so the longer I have been away. It wasn't just the poverty that affected me, sure it played a large role, but more importantly it was the experience I had among the people who were living in this poverty. I have always used the phrase, "It isn't the cards that were dealt to you, but how you play the cards that define you as a person" when dealing with a problem in my life. I always figured you couldn't change the situation at hand, you could only go forward and deal it with and how you dealt with most often defined whether I was happy or not.
In Ethiopia, the people are happy - much happier as a community than we are here in the states. Sure, I have a beautiful house, cars, boat etc, but I felt jealous of the people I met while in Ethiopia. They were happy with who they were, with the few belongings they owned. This realization 'wrecked' me in Ethiopia and continues to this day. How can I ensure that I raise my Ethiopian daughter to have the same love and self acceptance that I saw in her birth country? How can I myself become more content with what I have in my life? How can I give back to those that have less than I? Should I continue to strive for climbing the corporate ladder, or shift my passions and direct them more to what I feel is a calling to serve? Should I just donate money to causes (charity) or look to become part of a long-term solution (justice) that seems to feel right to me? These are all questions that I have with me each day since my trip to Ethiopia. In many ways they are gaining strength, directing me to become more active in driving awareness of these issues and looking for others with similar goals to create a larger impact.
Have you been "wrecked" - would love to hear your comments and thoughts on how it has impacted your life.
David
