Friday, November 5

David’s Birthday Wish

I turn 37 on Saturday and I have a birthday wish – to share with 13 others from my church the amazing boys at Kolfe Boys Orphanage in Addis Ababa. As a birthday wish I am raising $1369 which is $37 for each of my 37 birthdays. If you feel obliged to make a donation, you can do so here: Donate Now

As an parent to two Ethiopian children I have a fond connection to the beautiful people of Ethiopia as well as an understanding of the great needs of children who have been orphaned through the loss of one or both parents due to poverty and disease.

The day after Christmas a group from Olivet Lutheran Church will leave kolfe boys for Addis Ababa, Ethiopia to spend a bit over a week at the Kolfe Boys Orphanage. Kolfe is an orphanage made up of over 130 boys aged 10 and older. These boys are truly amazing and have touched many hearts already. You can read more about Kolfe and the relationship Olivet has with this orphanage here.

Other organizations such as Gladney and Luke 8:21 Orphan Care Ministries have provided resources and connections to these boys. You can read about a scholarship program that Gladney operates that provides an opportunity for these boys to attend school.

Upon our return it is my goal that our entire group will have been captivated by this amazing country, these amazing boys of Kolfe and the spirit and hope that they will then ignite an entire congregation to get involved in the relationship with Kolfe.

If you can help with even $5 or $10 it would truly be appreciated. I will be blogging and Facebooking the trip so you will be able to follow along on our journey. Thank you in advance for your thoughts and considerations.

Thursday, November 4

Mom's Tip #3 - Guest Blogger Amanda's 5 Little Wonders

Today’s Mom Tips guest blogger is Amanda at Our Wee Family. When she’s not chasing her streaking toddler through the house, reading “Fancy Nancy” for the zillionth time to her preschooler or cleaning out all of the crushed bunny crackers from the backseat of the van, Amanda enjoys writing articles for magazines, taking photos and attempting to knit.

Five Little Wonders

When my husband and I watched the “Babies” documentary last spring, we turned to each other in utter astonishment as the Mongolian nurse used strips of cloth to tie up the swaddled newborn. No, we weren’t horrified at the restraint. We were kicking ourselves that we never thought of it!

You know what it’s like. You hear about an idea or product from a friend, test it out and thank your lucky stars for the discovery. Unfortunately, I didn’t learn of the Mongolian swaddling technique in time for both of my kids, but here are the five wonders that made our job a heck of a lot easier.

INFANTS

The inventor of this product should simply be kissed. It’s one of the best swaddlers on the market – so simple to use with very secure Velcro. Thanks to the bottom pocket, you can change your baby while still keeping his arms wrapped. The small slit opening in the bottom also makes it easy to buckle baby into a swing or even a car seat. And, bonus, in our culture the SwaddleMe  is a bit more acceptable than tying up your kid.

I was lucky to have an amazing lactation specialist to coach me through questions with both of my kids, but I still used this book as my nursing bible. It describes EVERYTHING you could possibly want to know about nursing, as detailed as to what to expect the first few days to how to maintain a nursing relationship when returning to work. It’s perfect for reading before baby – either to help you make the decision to nurse or not, or to get you started.

Baby sign language may be trendy, but its benefits go far deeper than what you’ll get from the latest fashion diaper bag. Simplified American Sign Language signs make it surprisingly easy to communicate with your baby long before he can talk. There are several programs out there, but I’ve had a wonderful time using Baby Signs. Sign up for a local class or just buy the starter kit online. Your baby will thank you (in sign).

TODDLERS

SleepSack
As soon as we stopped swaddling, our kids moved into SleepSacks, genius zip-up suits that replace blankets in the crib. The sacks come in several sizes, though we typically just ordered a couple in a size or two bigger and used them for months. This particular brand washes and wears beautifully and even comes in toddler sizes with little foot holes at the bottom for walking. Bonus feature: with babe’s little legs all tucked in a sleep sack, she’s less likely to successfully swing a leg over the crib rail. Sweet!
Not surprisingly invented by a mom, these baby leg warmers are even more functional than they are adorable. Easier to pull on and off than tights, they make the perfect accessory to skirts and dresses. But they’re also amazing for potty training. Simply dress baby – boy or girl – in undies, shirt and baby legs for easy potty use. We’ve also used them on both kids during diaper rashes, when their bottoms needed some fresh air. We dressed them in a shirt and baby legs to let them play or take a short nap in the crib. BabyLegs are available in adorable girl and boy designs.

Now that you know my little parenting product secrets, what are yours?

Read more of Amanda’s adventures in motherhood at Our Wee Family.

Wednesday, November 3

Holiday Traditions

Now that Halloween is behind us, I have shifted into planning for my favorite holiday, Christmas. I LOVE Christmas. I love the music, the baked goods, the church services, the lights, the decorations, and I love the buzz in the air. This year is especially meaningful as we will be celebrating our first Christmas as a family of four. On top of that, we will be hosting our extended family for the first time in our current house. I can not wait to celebrate with my family and to have them worship with us in our amazing church.

I realize Thanksgiving is the next holiday and I really do enjoy Thanksgiving. Who can't love spending an entire day feasting on delicious food, seeing family, and gearing up for the biggest shopping day of the year? I love it but I love Christmas even more.

When I think of Christmas, I think of traditions. I have always wanted to build my own family traditions that Maya and Makenna will continue when they have families. As a kid growing up, I recall my own family traditions such as attending church service on Christmas Eve and then driving around my small town looking at all the beautiful lights.  I also loved having my grandparents come to visit and knowing Santa didn't forget to put a big bag of chocolate Twizzlers in my stocking. 

Great memories.

As I think back to my childhood, I can't help but think "What are our traditions?"

I guess I don't feel we really have any at this point.  We usually spend Christmas with either my family or Dave's which means incorporating each families traditions into ours. With each family having their own traditions, how do we incorporate our own? 

I really feel my generation is used to spending each holiday with family whether it be Thanksgiving, Christmas or Easter.  I also think my generation not only spends the holidays with family, we are also the ones driving and rarely hosting.  Spending each holiday with family is wonderful and precious but it does make it hard to find your own family tradition. 
 
Does anyone have this issue?  Has anyone overcome this?  Is it possible to have your own traditions as well as share in your extended family traditions?

Monday, November 1

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Sunday, October 31

Trick or Treat

I have an confession. I really am not a Halloween fan. Growing up we never carved or painted pumpkins, decorated the house, or attended any fall harvest/pumpkin patch but we did go trick or treating. I remember each year my mother would buy us a costume, a plastic cape with ties on the back kind of like a hospital gown only made of plastic with a matching plastic mask. We wore them over our clothes and winter jackets. I remember going trick or treating all over my small town and hitting up as many houses as possible. Once we were back at home, the candy was poured out onto the living room floor to be sorted. I then would literally save my candy to the point where it has to be thrown away. Yes, much of it had to be thrown as it was months later and I'd still have candy left over. Crazy I know.

Although I am still not a fan of Halloween, I don't want my girls to know. I actually try very hard to ensure my girls love Halloween and enjoy all the fun activities. So far we have attended the fall festival, gone to the Pumpkin Patch, painted and carved pumpkins, and went trick or treating at daycare and my work. The girls (especially Maya) have really had a lot of fun. Each year it gets more and more fun for me as I get to see my girls enjoy the activities and see the smiles on their faces.

On Friday we attended a Halloween party at daycare and then enjoyed trick or treating at my work. It was an exhausting 2 hours for us parents but the girls had fun. Makenna really enjoyed walking around and grabbing as much candy as she could. They both looked adorable as well. Tonight we do it again by first spending time with friends and then going door to door trick or treating around our neighborhood.. It should be a really fun time for the girls and for me.

Happy Halloween everyone!


Saturday, October 30

Maya the Photographer

This morning Maya and I visited my friend Kristy and met her adorable baby daughter.  Maya found my camera and thought she should practice her photography skills.  Perhaps Maya found a new hobby :)  I mean look how amazing these pictures are?  Ha ha.


Picture of me holding baby Olivia - who cares if my head is chopped off

You gotta have a picture of the toss pillows

Better Homes and Garden anyone?

Very nice dog bed and dog toys :)

Thursday, October 28

Girlfriends

Friends are great and every girl needs a good friend.  Right?  I know I need my girlfriends and I treasure each and every one of them.  Even though I don't get to spend as much time as I would like with my friends, I do try to connect with them as much as I possibly can. 

Maya has some really great friends too even at age 3.  It is amazing how quick kids can make friends.  I could only dream of making friends so easily.  One of Maya's good friends is Wren.  I swear those two act more like sisters.  Wren and Maya can literally drive each other crazy (and drive us parents crazy too).  Although they have their not so good moments, they also have wonderful and beautiful moments.  Both of them get so excited to see the other and are quick to give hugs.  They have the best time together and usually never want to say good-bye.

A few days ago, Wren's dad Evan shared some photos of the girls from the past few months.  This particular picture just made me laugh.  I love it.  The girls were at another friend's birthday party in late August and lounging by the pool in the hot sun.  This picture made me fast forward 13 years as I see them hanging out at a public pool (and hopefully not checking out any cute boys!). 


They look so much older than 3.  Can't you see vision them 13 years from now?  Yikes!  That really freaks me out.  But seriously, aren't friends the best?